I still find it difficult when people, and that too my own people I must say, comment on my appearance ...I donno how to react or what to say! I mean trust me...ever since I got married I have been under scrutiny so many times I don't even remember now and after 11 years and non stop dissection of my personality, it is almost normal to me now. Having said that, I must add, that it's not like I don't get conscious each time someone points out how fat I am or how heavy my face is or how my lips are turning black now or why do I have grey hair or why I am wearing what I am wearing or why I am using the kind of makeup I am using and the list is endless. Most of the time such comments come from my own people..my close relatives or family members and that makes it so ironical. I remember someone telling me right after I got married how my husband looked better than me (I was told that in person..right on my face🤭) and once I was told, how no one called me beautiful and my baraatis were better looking than the dulhan (that's me🤭).Earlier it crushed my self respect and made me question my own self, but not anymore. Yes it irks me, but I know who I am and I am not looking for other people perspectives to prove myself. I don't have to prove myself to anyone in first place. And all those people who try to pull me down by saying such things, I pity them for their thinking and the kind of person they are. I feel sorry for people who give so much importance to someone's appearance and clothing that they don't see how that person actually is and how those words might effect them. So all this long post that I wrote is just so you guys don't feel alone when someone pulls u down bcz f ur appearance or makes fun of u. Remember, you are enough. You are a good person, a good human being and that's what matters. More power to me n to you bcz this is not going to stop but u should also not stop. Be you. Be beautiful in ur own way. You are enough. You don't have to change as per anyone's liking. You are just right the way u are.
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